The covenant condition restriction (CC and R's) establishes the general rules and guidelines that homeowners within a community agree to abide by. These rules may include requirement/restrictions on outbuildings, house color, the general appearance of your home, etc. These rules are designed to help keep up the appearance of the neighbor (thereby protecting home values), and in condominium situations, they're also designed to "keep the peace" amongst neighbors since people are living in close proximity to each other.
Living on a expat compound is not being a homeowner, however that does not mean that CC and R's would not help in building a better living community. In fact, I think it's doubly important when you have people from all over the world trying to reside next door to each other. People born in Third World countries tend to have a different idea about what is appropriate with it comes to being neighborly than those of use who come from the west. So you can imagine the frustration one would feel when you have one neighbor who is let's say for the sake of argument Palestinian and the other is British. The Palestinian believes with all his might that his children have the right to play outside all hours of the day or night, in their neighbors yard, destroying their plants (i.e. personal property), etc. Then you have the British family who comes from a culture in which intruding on someone's space in such a manner is rude, beastly, and inconsiderate. These two are going to have problems. And, such is the case all over camp. I've heard stories of people trying to keep chickens on the compound at their houses. Seriously. And, the person who's rooster is waking up its neighbors at the break of dawn doesn't seem to get that this is a nuisance to everyone around them, but the biggest part is that they don't seem to care. There seems to be an uncanny ability to ignore how one's behavior has an affect on those around them. This makes for a lot of tense situations.
So, on camp, could we benefit from CC and R's? Absolutely. In fact, due to the level of too many different cultures trying to reside in a small space (both in land mass and due to the houses being connected; a lot of homes are duplexes) there is bound to be problems. CC and R's would/could insure that these problems are handle in a fair manner based on the agreed to rules, and not based on a persons nationality, race, or religion.
With my limited experience in living in this type of situation, I understand some of the effects and issues that arise out of so-called multiculturalism. Chancellor Angela Merkel stated in a press conference that it doesn't work. I think I agree. Now, we don't want the Germans rising up against any group. LOL. We all know how that turned out. But, I sympathize.
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OMG it took me a while but finally!!! I'm able to post on your blog!!
As I mentioned on FB, I'm going to be placed in RT camp any time soon (you know how slow the proces could take) and all I can say is that I hope with all my heart u still there!!! Otherwise Ill go NUTS lol. Hope u have a great time with family in the US! Merry christmas and joyful new year to you and family!
Best regards,
Vhartmann
Hello V
Don't know why you were having problems, I've never had anyone tell me they couldn't post. Anyway...I'm glad you were able to.
I don't know when you're going to be here or where you're coming from, but RT is a small camp. Personally, I hate living here and so wish cI could move to Dhahran. On the other hand, to be fair, I know some people who love it. However, those people are all families with small children.
Let me know once you get to RT. I would love to know your thoughts/opinion.
Wishing You and Yours The Best This Christmas Season!!
Hi again,
Im from Venezuela! But been aground for some time now due to oil business (husband's job) right now I'm in Mexico, and have 3 kids, I will only bring my younger son which is 11, my other 2 daughters are 14 and 17 so I won't put them through this rough environment as they are as we very liberals lol (rough times are coming for me lol) benn in Spain also so let's see how it all goes for us in KSA :-). So glad you answer so soon, thought you might be on your way home! I have so many questionssssss!!
Haha I had Palestinian neighbors that were like that, minus the kids outside in our yard though. Loud talking at 12am under my bedroom window, telephone conversations outside out bedroom window at 6am...(cause they would rather wake us up and take the call...right). Loud bustling arab parties going throughout the night and then wonder why it took until 4am to get their baby to sleep. It would be my worst nightmare to have to o through that again!
oh boy! let's just hope I get luky LOL
@Vanessa, my fingers are crossed for you that you have nice neighbors.
BCIS,
You are a Diamond in the Ruff. Although I am a black American Muslim living in America, I am well traveled, and understand everything you are going through and have gone through. You would be amazed at how uncomfortable I was when I came to Saudi on Hajj. I truly couldn't wait to get back to America where being black is no longer a low class color. Hun hun, as for living next to Arab’s, get ready, it gets worse. I moved out of an entire state to get away from them. I am originally from Florida, which is home of the Arab liquor stores, and pork sandwich stands! What Hippocrates! They stand outside of their liquor stores say, “Look, at these drunk filthy pork eating niggers!”But they are the one’s selling the pork, liquor and the M F’ing porn. Man oh man, I will be following your blog to the fullest. Arab parents dont beat their kids, but I do beat their kids when they come to the Mosque.
Keep the videos coming!
P.S. What is the phone number of that shop you had your newest abaya made at? I am thinking about ordering some stuff whole sale and selling it here in America. These Arab chicks be spending all the money here in GA. Oh yeah, and does the shop people speak English?
@Tiffany...I'm really trying to not make a blanket judgement against all Arabs, since I have a few as friends. However.....
I'm not in Saudi and therefore do not have the information (phone number) for First Choice abayas. Their english is extremely limited and I don't think you could make this transaction happen over the phone without speaking arabic.
Best of luck to you!!
Your story reminds me of my first job in Tokyo working for a London stockbroker's that had just been bought by a major Swiss bank. I was an editor in the research division. It had a Swiss Big Boss, a British boss, a British economist and lots of Japanese analysts. At first I was very excited at the prospect of such a multicultural office. As an American who'd been living in England for many years, I thought I'd be very comfortable in that atmosphere.
How naive I was! I soon discovered that the Swiss and the Brits were constantly clashing: a Swiss banker and a London stockbroker are like chalk and cheese, as the Brits might say. And the Japanese tended to keep themselves to themselves, as though they wished all of us foreigners would go away.
There were a couple of other Americans in the office besides me, and somehow we always found ourselves in the middle of these warring groups, trying to get people to talk to each other, make peace.
Rather like the role America occupies (or at least used to occupy, until George W Bush) in the wider world. "Why can't we all just get along?" became our mantra.
It was hard work, and to be honest, I didn't miss it when I moved on to the next job--working for a Japanese ad agency, though that certainly had its cultural challenges as well!
p.s. I am enjoying your blog--so much so that I'm now linking out to it from mine. Called "Seen the Elephant," it covers the (mis)adventures of those who travel far afield and then, at least in some cases (in my case!), attempt to go home again...
Thanks ML for stopping by and for sharing your story. I've worked for a Japanese company in the states, and even though we were in the states, they still stayed to themselves, had "japanese only" meetings. It was crazy. LOL
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